Firstly, u would be entitled to feel be aggrieved with her behaviour as she sounds like an immature annoying little beatch.

She suggested meeting, but in stupid girly way meaning sometime in next month ahead. Whereas u are male, like pussy, and seizes on this to make it that u wanna meet in, like, five minutes time. This fundamental mismatch between u -- outgoing and upfront -- and her -- more reserved and less trusting -- has come to light here. Plus your more mature and not.unreasonable expectations on communications around how to meet up.

I suggest in light of evidence presented that u leave it for a bit. Don't initiate communications. If she contacts u, reply in order to not give rude impression of ignoring msg, but leave it until NEXT day to reply. U should be in control and not have this beatch having u run round in circles. She might never change!