as ive said before...the best way to learn is to turn off the computer, get out and practice practice practice and practice, the quicker you do that the quicker the sets will become "easier" and open more often and then you will start to to feel better in yourself.

but in order to do this you need to get out of your comfort zone, and yes you going to fuck it up, and yes some are going to walk off and not even pay any attention to you.

but once you start to feel more confident in opening sets (ie you dont give a fuck whether they bomb or not) the more they will be more receptive towards you.

Then you can start trying the next stage of gaining attraction, but it doesnt come over night, no matter what bootcamp you do.

when your a newbie, at minimum you need to be a set opening machine...

Ill take any newbie out with me, ill even cook you dinnr, and let you crash at mine, all for free, but you come out and dont make an effort by at least opening 3 sets, even if its just "excuse me whats the best bar to go to around here "

you wont get asked again, simple as... in short, save you money, switch off the TV, get out and talk to people, because the sooner you realise all the things that are stopping you are all in your head, the quicker you will progress