OK, devils advocate stance says let's say this Facebook intense focus works in so far you get dates

But then what? It's face 2 face and you got to show value, be a cool guy, be of interest to her without the virtual world of fake friends of friends, canned negged comments, et al

Cool stuff includes art, music, socialising, movies, spirituality, sports, and infinitely more! A guy can be into some of those in a big way and a lot of worthwhile women will dig a selection of these as hobbies. But Facebook as a big hobby...