Hi man,
I am just thinking aloud here, if there is no sex, why not go for the "Lewinsky"?

Anyway, I had similar problem, and than one night that girl slept at my place. In the early morning I was in position to penetrate, but did not have a condom on, so did not do it. However, played many sex games with her. It was not as good as proper sex, but it was good enough and a new experience.