Ok, so this is my first proper post on here. I have a bad case of oneitis at the minute so I'll start at the beginning....

Around September time I was working long days watching a door so read The Game on recommendation from a friend. At the end of this week I finished the book and was planning on trying out what I'd learned at my friends fancy dress party.

I decided peacocking was a good idea and didn't drink anything. The party was so much fun as I spoke to so many different sets, had girls swapping fancy dress props etc. with me and quite a few IOIs.

To cut a long story short I ended up spending the majority of the night with a girl I've worked with for about 4years, she broke up with her bf of four years in January and although there was always 'something' there we never acted on it.

So after this night I started seeing her more outside of work, nothing more than friends but it was cool for the minute.

So one day I'd gotten some free tickets to Alton towers, I'd invited a couple of mates, a different girl I liked AND the girl from the party.

My friends kept taking the piss cos I was having to work on both of them (sometimes at the same time) but by the end of the day they were competing for my attention!

That night we took everyone home and I was left with the girl from the party, we watched movies, made out and fooled around till 4am then she left saying she wanted to take things slow.

She shit tested A LOT before we got to sex. My favourite was when she stopped just before, I said ok, got up and checked my emails, she was gobsmacked and came straight over for more attention!

So then the sex and all that was out of the way there was definitely something there and it was going well with her.

Then out of nowhere after about a month of seeing each other she went very quiet with me and basically told me that although she really likes spending time with me, she's not over her ex (who cheated on her a lot).

She said that she might have a revelation one day and want to see me again but to be honest that's a bit unfair on me just waiting for something that might never happen.

I think the fact that I know she likes me is what's causing my oneitis but it's been 4weeks and I'm sick of it. We still talk and see each other most days at work which doesn't make it any easier. I'd love to just delete her number and forget it but we share lots of the same friends and it would just make things awkward

Any advice or similar situations would be much appreciated!