So, i tried that whole cocky arrogant amog thing with a girl i knew yesterday and although it was by text, it went interestingly well. But what i think is you cant be too assertive when you do it, if you know what i mean? I mean yeah, its all well and good if you have the confidence go up to a girl and say, where do you want it? But whats her reaction going to be? Being cocky and assertive like that is something you have to work in to, not something you would bust out straight away right?