Yeah, but dude, I want her to call me up for some fun. That's the whole point. I don't always say yes though. Sometimes I tell her I'm busy doing something else. She did not respond to my direct message so then (on the advice of a 19 year old hb9 female friend) I sent her another message which said "Sorry but I couldn't stop thinking about you. You can't blame me for wanting to be with you. I hope I didn't go too far". Maybe that's gay as fuck but she responded, "Anyways u got the point of my not answering yesterday and in addition i'm a bit ill as soon as i get better though we go out for an exotic dinner ok?"
Sometimes the game can fuck up your game. One of my best friends was into this girl, his tactic was just to ask her if she had a bf and keep telling her how beautiful she was and that he was crazy about her. He's now married to her.