make eye contact with evryone u see, smile at people. Walk upright, exposing your belly and throat. Try to remember the good feelings of self esteem you had when you were between 2 and 4 yrs old and boom you feel them again now. Look for peoples shit tests (pointless instructions to you to make you follow their leadership) and avoid them or throw your own instruction first as a compromise. Dont use high pitched girl-like voice tonality. Watch how people treat you differently.