Monday 4 October

Exhausted and on a comedown.......

.....I did 5 online approaches! Arrgghhh

After much thought and deliberation I think this along with my 3 approaches on Friday 8 October is an automatic fail (erm learning experience..........no Snake Eyes no in this case fail!! Online is not an approach, 3 approaches is not 5 approaches!). Haha anyway, so I have failed my first attempt at 5 a day for 30 days, but to be honest this hasn't disheartened me. I am still making incrediable progress and this 5 a day was messing me up. I have managed to fuck myself financially this month (although gaming was only a minor contribution ot this), my work quality has gone down and my body and fitness is messed up! Also, I was only approaching for the sake of it cos I got so tired. Right so what to do.......

I need to chill out on the spending and get myself in shape for the Dorset stickler I'm doing on 31 October, so I really need to concentrate on that for a few weeks. I will still game for the remainder of this month and post my thoughts here. However, my 5 a day challenge will officially commence again on 1 November. I will have a few rules this time....

New rules for '5 a day'
1) Online approaches do not count
2) Pointless approaches do not count i.e. girls I don't fancy
3) No approaching for the sake of approaching! 100% all the way
4) Can not carry over approaches even if I do more than 5.
5) But, if it looks like I'm going to get laid I can stop at that approach. However, to make up for this I must make up the remaining approaches in the next 48 hours!

Right so bull shit over, here is how my week went.....

Tuesday 5 October

Met 2 wings, still tired and coming down!

70) Feeling real nervous today so started indirect. Went bad.

71) 3 foreign girls, Oxford Street. 'Russian' I shout. They say yes. I say cool I guessed right. Chat for about 3 minutes. Felt awkward, but manage to get a number close. Wow. Think its a flake, but stay tuned Snake Fans...... (Saturday 9 October)

72) Something in Boots that had no real impact on my life or hers.

73) Piccadilly fountain. Sexy German school kids (they said they were 19) not so sure! Can' remember what I said, but it went well until stupid teacher took them away from creepy PUA man in a suit haha! Boosted my state though!

74) Did another indirect badly - time to go home!!! Too tired, kind of gave up! (apologies my memory is very hazy of this day)

75) Got home. Went for dinner. Spanish girl in Tesco. She drops her sausage, I pick it up (not to be confused with the sausage approach - wrong forum!). We start chatting. Conversation dries up. I see she is kind of looking at me longingly, but then she runs off. Later in the bread isle, she is there again. I say hello again. We chat. I ask her where she lives, call her a fisherman or something, tease her about something else, I can see she wants me big time, 'what's the best way to contact you', bang close! Kind of pleased I managed 2 numbers when I was feeling so bad (turns out neither were flakes either)

Wednesday 6 October

76) My mate at work asked me if I had ever read 'The Game'. 'Erm yeah..... ages ago' I replied. 'Yeah its really cool' he says. Hmmm I say 'do you want to do some approaches at lunch?'. He says yes. Cool! Bit nervous, mainly because this will probably ruin my big pimp reputation at work when they realise how much I get blown out, but hey. I need to destroy my stupid ego anyway (more on this getting me in trouble later - in a pretty big way!!). So we go out and immediately I directly approach a girl who he says is hot. She is German doesn't undertstand. 6 more Germans come along to see what the fuss is about. I say something neither an Englishman or Germanman could understand and bail.

77) A load of students. My target was fit. Was just a chat though about their stupid space mobile thing. Those crazy students!!!

78) Bad approach in a toruist shop

Meanwhile my 'newbie' mate has gone into chat to a girl sitting on the step and spends the whole lunch chatting to her and number closes on his first approach. Damn it!! Beginners luck haha. Actually I'm really proud of him. I ask him how he opens and he just says he said ' hi I saw your own your own so came to chat to you.' or 'Hi are you on your lunch break, cool me too, I'll sit with you' sure it was something along those lines. Very natural and another argument against canned openers!

After work meet some wings!

79) Street ticket girl. Nice chat, fit, goes no where!

80) indirect cafe opener bad!

81) indirect cafe opener bad!

82) Super fit! Meant to go direct, get tongue tied, indirect cafe opener sort of. Was really more of a weird noise!

83) Finally get the balls to do direct. Run up to a girl (literally she was moving fast). I say ' hi I was walking past you and told my friend I thought you were hot so I thought I would tell you.' (was really out of breath from my sprint - this is why I need to train for my race!!!). She is flattered and we speak for a bit, but she has a BF (or at least tells me she does). Oh well I am happier now at least.

84) Aussie 1 Bar. Just chat for a bit. Sorry can't remember opener.

85) Aussie 2 Bar outside. Same group. Chat, number close weak. She is leaving next day, so I never actually called to see if this was a flake.

86) Street, something about shoes. Doesn't stick. Wings say I have no AA, which pleases me. Unfortunately they are wrong on this.

87) 2 set 1 English girl and 1 Venuzalian (back at language thing). Turns out to be other Venuzalian's house mate! See previous posts. Yeah my sexy Venuzalian is here.....

Right into lock down mode. I flirt well with my Venuzlian, make her laugh, we touch a lot and do some more Spanish English lessons. I am chatting to other girls and guys too and generally making good impression. I go upstairs for a tap water. I don't approach as I'm set on my Venuzalian (FIRST MISTAKE). I go back down and chat some more. Sexy one says how fun I am. Guys keep coming in, but I am their favourite, ok seems to be going well. We start dancing a bit. I am doing bits of Ceroc and they are teaching me Venuzalian dancing. I teach them silly English dancing including the 2 handed pill head dance, the Hip Hop wannabe 1 handed dance, the box, the car and the card shuffle. They lap it up!!

I teach her about fuck buddies which she finds amusing and adds sexy vibe. I point out some chode and say he could be her fuck buddy. She laughes and is going good. Tease her about been an angel or something.

More dancing, but what is this!! First AMOG. He is an amazing dancer and steals my girl (apart from dancing he isn't much though!). I know I can't dance as good as him, so I say 'hold up, right everyone lets do English dancing. Box dance! The 2 Venuzalian girls and some random dude start following. The car, They follow! Card shuffle. They follow! 'Okay okay and now for the finale, I'm going to show you the pinnacle of English dancing. This took like 10 years to master! I do the lawn mower (this was actually taught to me by a South African!). They love it and AMOG 1looks at me funnily and runs off with his tail between his legs. Good.

AMOG 2 is dancing with my girl. Damn, this is a big problem with fitter girls!! I dance with not so hot Venuzalian for a bit, but the other one is not biting and carries on with AMOG 2. I fear V2 wants to pull me which I don't want, so I stop and go chat to my wing! I start getting a bit stressed about AMOG 2 (MISTAKE 2) and ask him about it. He tells me to chillout, but I am get quite worked up actually (MISTAKE 3 - in fact this ruins me) (luckily is out of sight of V1 though)!. I am way over stressed - think tiredness from week is partly to blame). He says 'just chill out' 'Don't think, do!'. So I go back and in between songs grab her again. we dance, it is fun, but I can sense I have lost her. She is looking around and looks at her watch too. Oh no!! 'I going home soon' she says. 'Yeah me too!' I say (MISTAKE 4 - very reactive). I get my coat. She is not leaving doh. I hang around a bit (MISTAKE 5) and chat to my wing. Eventually we agree I am doing more harm than good and decide to go. Live to fight another day and all. I say good bye. I then say 'yeah we still on for Saturday yeah (MISTAKE 6 - needy!) and hug her again quite expectently (MISTAKE 7). She says yeah of course, I will text you. I leave! She never text!

Ok this was a bit messed up. The other big mistake (MISTAKE 8) I made here was not upping the sexual tension when I had the chance. I should have been making her break the eye contact and letting her break the awkward silences. This worked in Poland and I forgot to use this as I was all stressed out! I don't think this is completely dead, but it will be hard to revive. May drop a text tomorrow to test the waters here. I should also probably not have gone back to where I met her initally (POSSIBLE MISTAKE 9). I met her on her terms and this has bitten more than once before. Will let you know if I manage to turn this around. However, this is a good example of a guy putting to much emotional investment in 1 girl (see previous posts too - how smitten I am!). Don't do this!!!

I am knackered!!

Thursday 7 October

Need sleep!!

Meeting non PUA friends. Hmmm this will be interetsting.

88) Woman at bus stop - would not count under new rules!

89) Girl on street approaches me! Just directional. probably not aloud under new rules.

My mate is chatting to his ex when I arrive. She is cute, but hands off this one, is my friends ex. However, she lights up when I get there and says to my friend how she is pleased he has some cool friends which I kind of like.

90) Bump into guy. Girl jumps up and aplogises on his behalf. No problem. We start chatting and get on great. They are on a date. She wants to buy me a drink. Ok. She does and slips me her number afterwards. I am pleased at this and also please I at yet more free stuff from girls!! My mates mate asks if I did some Game shit there (what what - how do they know!!! haha).

91) Girl outside. Pretty fit. Goes no where though.

92) American girls. Not fit, but dig us. I am getting too smashed.

93) More tequila and I am completely smashed. Ego enters! Do not drink and game - now I will tell you why.........

.......I am pretty confident as I have been really social all evening and all the girls I have chatted to seem to like me! I see a 2 set. I am convinced in my drunken head I can kiss 1 in 2 minutes (not even because I want to - but because my ego wants to prove to all the guys that I can).

I open. We do stuff with cameras! It is going well, we are all laughing. I some how make them do animal impressions. I isolate the fitter one. In my head its going well. We are really kinoing. I keep putting her hands on me. Telling her to stand closer. Putting my hands on her. In my head it is all fun! She goes off to see her friends for a sec. I go back to the guys I'm with all happy and proud of myself. 'Wow' they say ' yeah' i say thinking they are going to be all imprssed. 'Wow, you were kind of forward there!' 'Erm sorry', 'Yeah you were kind of forward there'. 'No she liked it, I say' 'Erm are you sure, ok I guess' 'yeah of course, she loves me' I beem.........

......I see them outside with my friend so I go in to prove my point that she loves me and go start chatting to him. The girl, her friend and 2 other guys she is with all look at me nervously and walk off quite quickly.
My drunk mate who has known (and respected me to this moment) since I was 0 years old looks at me and says ' Wow they were talking about you!!!'
'What' I say.
'You're the really forward guy!! '

Then suddenly like a playful puppy who has just realised they have done soemthing wrong it dawns on me people are angry at me! 'Bad Dog!!! Bad Snake Eyes!!' Oh oh I have done wrong!

I was not running the train like Ozzy from Transformations said. No instead, 'do do duddle la duh du' it is Rapey the Clown!!!!! Oh no after I tried so hard to avoid him before (Rapey is a charcter introduced in previous posts, he is sort of playful and entertaining, but also kind of 'rapey'). I had been a sleazy drunk not a smooth player type guy! Completely out of my natural character and shows me off very badly in front of all these people that don't know me too well and probably embarass my friend for having me as a friend (if he wasn't so drunk). The worst thing is only I know what was going on in my head. Firstly I thought it was all really playful in my drunk mind (poor drunken puppy) and secondly I only wanted to kiss her to look cool not because I was lusting after her (ok this still makes me look pretty bad..... maybe worse in fact!!). BAD RAPEY!!

94) Yeap I'm still going!! Where's a taxi when you need one! I tell the guys I can open anyone in the bar and I was just trying something new back there that back fired (they look at me weird - oh yeah Snake Eyes that will be the whole PUA thing you've been keeping a secret for the last few months there haha!! I badly approach a hot blond.

95) I chat to some minger outside still drunk and delusonally full of myself!!

Finally I get some sense and I go home.

Friday 8 October

Head ache....realisation.... regret.... actually probably wasn't as bad as I made out and I still have lots of lessons learnt.....

LESSON 1 - Never game for the sake of it as I have been. Basically black or white never grey!! Either don't do it or push through it (preferably the latter if you can!!)

LESSON 2 - Still got 2 solid numbers when my game felt at its weakest. I am obviously starting to make a subconsious change from all these social interations. Even though Wednesday and Thursday went bad I am still happy right now and am happier generally than I have been in years. Just from 4 weeks or so of solid gaming!

LESSON 3 - Don't fill your head with crap. Just do it (see my newbie mate). (However is still a good idea to have backup openers, hooks, negs etc if you become tongue tied. These should just be for emergency though - not the norm. More on this later)

LESSON 4 - Still approach even if you have your heart set on 1 girl (this could have altered my mid set with V1). This would have stopped my neediness and 1 itus with her on that evening.

LESSON 5 - AMOGs will AMOG you. However, fun stuff can destroy cool stuff (see dancing). If you do get AMOGed. Don't stress. Keep haing fun and don't be bothered! Even if he 'out games' you its no big deal. Even Muhammed Ali was not undefeated!! Just learn and improve!

LESSON 6 - Sexual escalation. Eyes and silences. Make her break it - see previous posts on Polish trip!

LESSON 7 - Be careful gaming when drunk. It throws your social compass way off!!! What you view as fun might not be the case for everyone!!

LESSON 8 - Be careful of gaming in front of non PUAs before you get good!

Ok getting late again. Will finish up for now and continue my weekend/today's antics tomorrow.........