Yeah, maybe the pre-selection was actually working, but they were intimidated by her (since she was so hot) until she made herself scarce.

Did you not notice IOI's, like them looking at you, proximity, giggling, acting flaboyant etc?

A pivot doesn't drag them over and introducethem to you, it generates interest but you still have to work at it.

Well That's my understanding of them anyway. I'm quite new, so if you have to correct me do it gently. Actually I don't care be tough.