There's nothing wrong in talking to girls you are actually physically attracted to. You will get further if you chat to girls YOU find physically attractive. However at the start of the night, there is nothing wrong with being social, chat to guys, chat to women you don't particularly find attractive etc. This will warm you up.....and I think there is nothing wrong with warm up sets, or getting yourself into a socialble mood.

Hell, I'm not sociable all the time....always happy marky!! No way.... I can be a grumpy old git