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Originally Posted by camarda
AND ALSO. STOP FUCKIN HATIN ON THE GUY. 'douchebag'. he ain't no douchebag. he is a guy who women deem sexy. very sexy it appears. infact, i had to look at him. he had something i didn't. and i was envious!
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It's not always easy to know what to attribute his success too though.
I.e. is buff the differentiating factor.
Are the other buff guys in the club doing as well? Probs not particularly.
What other qualities does he have? Confidence? Well I guess so as he approached her. How are all the other guys with lots of confidence in the club doing? Probs better on average than the buff guys.
If we see a guy owning a club and wearing a suite do we attribute his success to the smart suit and go out and buy a suit in the hope of experiencing the same success as he did? It's all the same thing isn't it?
Very simple example but I'm sure you get my point. Just something to consider.
In my experience so far it seems to be the tiny subtle things which make the big differences to how women respond rather than the big things. I.e. what's going on in your head and the subtle ways in which that shows through.