Dreadful post mate, unless you're being sarcastic.

Having a great body doesn't guarentee that when you see a chick you like, that you'll go up to her and talk to her. I see it quite often when I'm out - you'll have hot chicks on the dance floor and most of the huge guys will just standing on the edge of dancefloor doing nothing, just watching them.

There may be deeper issues which bulking/cutting and going to the gym won't resolve.