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Default 01-05-2009, 11:46 AM

Sup man

I think your worrying alittle too much about this . Your a man , and if you are confident in yourself (which you seem to be) you should have no trouble with this ... A very simple resolution here .

If you feel that she should get the next round in or if you've met her in a bar and you want her to buy YOU a drink . She should be aware of this and just through the way you interact you can get this across . The main point is , don't make it out to be a big deal !!

For god's sake don't say 'i got the last round in so you should get these in' or 'it's your round' . Just when you hit up a bar or coffe place wherever ... simply just tell her what you want .. no issue , your well aware that she's getting the drinks in because she likes you and that's just how it is ! If you start telling her WHY she should get the drinks in you appear chode .

Basically what we're doing is a) being Alpha which is always good as your being decisive and taking control and telling her what you want and b) your showing her that your not going to pander to her every need in pursuit of what's between her legs !

So ... it's not a big deal (do not make it out to even be an issue , dont give reasons why she should get them in ... You command respect enough to know that she is getting you a drink)

Simply tell her what you want as though it was implied she was getting them ...

Then she will think a) this guy isn't a pushover and b) he's in control and he's a man !

Oh and final note , if she brings it up e.g 'oh so you just assume im getting them am i ??' you can then just be playful and say something like 'of course , cos you like me' cheecky smile ect ... She cannot in anyway not get you a drink then as your put her in a role and if she doesn't she will appear cheap and abit of a bitch !

Fun times , trust me man that will be fine ... oh and ! Women buy you drinks all the time so why should she be different
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