I use to go to gay clubs just to watch how these guys operate and to learn. they are experts at the game an us hetros can learn a lot from them. Do think it is an accident the women flock to them.

They know how to hit the right buttons in HBs and the HBs lap it up even though they know it will not go anywhere yet they still love being around these guys.

As a bit of advice, take a HB on a date to a gay bar; lots of eye candy for her who are absolutely no threat to you and it shows her that you are comfortable with yourself and your own sexuality. and becasue there are no other hbs around you can focus your attention on her. Not sure if this latter point is really a good one. what do the mpuas think of this?