This is a link to an audio of an interview with Bravo. The Stylelife Academy was founded by Neil Strauss (aka Style)..! Hear it with a pinch of salt cos it was more like a marketing drive for a Stylelife Conference. An excerpt of the intro:
A super-tight interview on what to do, and – more importantly – what not to do when using online dating services to meet women. It’s a preview of Bravo’s conference session in Los Angeles on online dating, which, in and by itself, is the easiest method to meet hundreds of women in the span of just a week.
http://www.stylelife.com/academy/onlinegame/
I never use a dating site. The only online site I used is facebook.
Much Success!!