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Originally Posted by Le(e)large
but why not make yourself more confident as a person, have confidence in who you are rather than, I wonder how much pussy I can get, I thought that the whole point of this was once your confidence is in place and once you have the balls about you to approach, it doesn't matter what you say,
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The way confidence naturally works is,if you shit at something you have low confidence,if your good you get confidence.
Best way to get confidence in approaching is to approach, i had it fairly easy during my beginning phase of cold approaching, because i took on board certain tips. Like using good body language/voice tone/opinion openers, if the new guys take on board and apply these simple things, they will learn so much quicker, and confidence will soon come.
There are other ways to build confidence, like working on innergame, but the confidence thats comes from success is far more effective and solid.