I bumped into a member of this forum and he asked me to put on a post about how things are, I have spent several years studying psychology and my particular Field was women. This happened as I had split up with a girl and a few other talents mixed in which made me quit the expert very quickly.

So I guess this mean I have to write something about women and how to pick them up, well lets start with the woman.
Women Are NOT based on logic, they are emotional, this means that common sense is NOT in question whats so ever nor is using a logical path to find your self a woman.
Women are based on emotions and this is why they like shopping, soaps and chatting with friends. It is a mixture of self importance and feeling good.

For example (extreme) You have had your hair cut, I like what You have done with it!
I would like to play with your tits and I bet your good in bed..

Now just question yourself to which one would work better??
Well just in case you didn't know, its the hair one.

Now here is where it gets a little different, the second one works as well. BUT you have to know the woman to know if you can get away and say it, if they have been talking about being horny then you can get away with it.


Lost Faith..

Lost faith is when girl thinks shes not worth it, OR they wont find a guy.
When a girl has lost faith in her self few comments will work. this is because they cant see what you are saying may be true, this is simply because they think them self as devalued. It is highly common within women to be the case.

Girls and shopping should stand out and they put a lot of effort into picking out an outfit, so looking at that may get you in the right order, its the small and simple things, not trying so hard you look like a gay stalker trying to rob her clothes. lol...

READ
Everyone has body language, and much the same between men and women, A lot of men would go for slightly quieter women and women will go for those confident men.
You need to take your time to read a woman, so it may be a point to look at them from afar for a few weeks to get to know her body language. You can also see if she is turning down guys or is a bike, and her general reaction.

If you and your wingman can get close, over hearing the topic of conversation is pretty good as well. But don't say I heard you say.... just lead the convo back over to it, then she will think she has something in common with you.


Mean Keen..
This kind of thing works, I don't mean giving her a slap or too many knock backs, If you see a girl you like and you approach her or she approaches you, say Hi, and be nice. BUT walk away.. It is really important that you are nice and give off the "I'm Nice but try harder" approach to it and keep it short.

What you will do is create an interest.. Does he/she like me, Oh they were quite nice, why didn't they hang about if they liked me.
This little gap will lead the girl off to her friends and she will say how nice you were and her friends will say go talk to him again..

She possible wont, but if she is looking at you, then make some eye contact and then walk over buy her a drink, ask her name, and then introduce your self..
Then say something Like " oh there is my friend hes looking a bit lost" and wonder off again. If you want you can say that you will be back in a bit and not go back, you will find she is waiting..

Then go up to her saying how sorry you are and then say " I best give you my number" and do the number exchange. Tell her you will give her a call and then call her at an arranged time or day. DON'T try and pull her.
You will find that women appreciate it if you don't try to take them home on the first night, and a second soba opinion is always good.

Now what you have shown her is that you are in demand, your exciting, and you're interested in her.
I am sure that you have heard the saying what you cant have you want.
This wont work for all women, as they are different, love them self type will not like this approach and you will have to show them a lot of attention and give them a few wows, but don't forget that most women that you see have issues with something about themselves, and you will find that most attractive women are usually snapped up or single because noone will try. Or they love themselves so much you wouldn't want to be with them anyway.

I know this is a bit of a short and not fully rounded post, but I will try to answer some individual posts and when you read a more real application of what I write then maybe it will be more easy to understand and relevant.