That's all that matters. If one man assumes you are 'what you are not' from reading something you've written then maybe mull it over... but hey, if you are certain they're wrong then bollocks to it. If there is doubt then face up to it.

I agree with K. We are all here to give constructive advice and sometimes have to face up to our own flaws to push ourselves forward. We are all here to help one another, this is why I love this forum