I've not read everyone elsa's post but the first so i may be repeating what someone may of said as for porn i think watching it does mess the bloke watching it in his sex life, Watching it would implant the idea that women love sex like in that film (some may) so therefore we us as men replaying what we have seen in our own sex life leaving us a shit at shagging ... am saying this as i've compared vid's on how to pleasure women to just you're normal porn vid's.

Self pleasure i think is a good idea as i've read but not looked into it too much is a good idea. Why?? Because i hear spearm gets old fast to need to get rid of the old stock to get new stock in ....

... also i ones many, many years ago was talking to a old girlfriend that every bloke has a gizz she told me of this bloke who never Gizzed and i asked if he where a nob ... she told me he was, so my thoughts are that gizzing helps you relax so if you're not relaxed then you become a nob ...