Awesome post SJ - this is something I've started to realise recently too. It's going to be a bit of a challenge for me (I was always brought up to assume the worst in people - good in some ways, bad in many more) but realising this is a step in the right direction. Oceana on monday will be fun - we haven't done any pickup together for far too long and it'll be good to share some skills again!

Baby steps!