Nice thread! Even though I have lost my v card, I still suffer from being too picky with women! I think its natural to want the best for yourself!

I remember my first time.....I had been preselected by this girl that was actually quite good looking, no game was exchanged other than saying lets go back to my flat. I remember shaking because I was nervous and thinking shit should I be doing this when I am in a relationship or on a one night stand like now. I ended up doing the deed. Since then I don't get the nerves and just think its natural and we are both enjoying the moment.

Regarding advice, I would say loose it to a girl that you find attractive but she doesn't have to be smoking hot. Your first time will be shit, and the way I looked at it was I didnt wanna do it with a really good looking girl that will be alot more experienced then me, as if things went wrong, it may ruin my confidence. Also dont say your a virgin as girls will run a mile!