Hi all,

I'm a 26 year old male from Birmingham. I've been lurking for a while and finally decided to start posting. Firstly I'd like to say how great the forum is and how pleased I am to find people who are attempting to change themselves in the same way that I am, and who are more about inner game and self improvement than tricks to get women in to bed.

I've always tried to meet women on nights out, but I was never very good at it. I recently came across Juggler Method and have since been trying to implement as much as I can from this into my approaches (Expressing myself and my feelings through making statements in the I perspective, getting her to express herself through the example I set and with open ended questions, and then escalating by telling her that I like her when she reveals attractive qualities about herself). It's not an easy method and I'm still really a beginner, but I've found on some occasions that I can make great connections with women when I reveal myself and my feelings to them. These successes have inspired me and I plan to bring about a serious change over the next 12 months.

Thanks for all the inspiring posts, especially Kowalski, Jas, Tom, Adam etc.