Hi Stewart,

This section is just for introducing but it has been known to descend into debate so I wouldn't worry too much the reason you might want to post it in another section is for other people who read this have easier access when looking for solutions, this is probably best in general chat.

You can talk about anything really it's more how you do it but this is really to do with your inner self and confidence. A confident fun guy can make any subject engaging you just have to unleash that part of yourself.

You know you have it in you to be that man because you must have done something right to attract and get married and have relationships.

Talk about something you are interested in and talk with passion and enthusiasm, you don't want to talk about what every other guy thinks you should talk about to a woman because they'll have heard it all before.

Don't try and seek validation from her just be yourself, choose what you want to talk about not what you think she will want to hear. If you do this you're second guessing her thoughts on no actual basis just guess work, you'll get too in your head and try and force things.