So... I'm mid-50's and (don't judge me) like to play well above my level, specially with a big age gap. So compared to lots of you guys, my targets are very narrow.
However, there's sugar dating websites with beautiful young women looking for guys like me, and many girls who'd have thought about it or know a friend who does it and be open to something like that but who wouldn't signed up to a website. I'd be interested in opinions but I feel like the night game could work in bars, also night street, takeaways, taxi queues.

So when I say a sugar dynamic, I'm not saying I'm looking for an escort or to pay money directly, but just to come over as that wealthy, generous older guy that girls might (secretly) be a bit envious of their friends getting with.

The main thing I feel is to not be creepy or desparate - straight in, strong confident reply to first rejection then if it's not working, straight out and move on!

Any suggested openers?
For an all-girl group, something like "so which one of you is looking for their own real-life sugar daddy?" Obvs delivered with humour and in the context of banter.

Or for a single girl "hey you remind me of a girl I was chatting to on a sugar dating site, was it you?"

Any ideas, tips, feedback very welcome!