If you had been a bit more subtle she may have come home with you but it might have resulted in that after whatever happened she still wouldn't want to see you again. There's no need to be pushy.

At the end she doesn't want to see you again and you knew already that it had ended a bit flat, that's how you predicted correctly what would happen next. Trust those feelings.

My last post was telling you to reduce the pressure by starting physical contact early before it gets awkward. Now you are trying to use the same ideas to apply more pressure. I know you wanna get laid a bunch but chill, look at how far you've come already. You'll be fine this is all gonna work out. You don't have to become a manipulator. This girl liked you.

If a girl says she can't stay out because she has to do something else, be chill about that. She has a life that has nothing to do to with some boy she just met. Just keep hanging out and having fun, maybe she'll cancel her possibly fake appointment maybe she won't, it doesn't matter. She could have been in your life for a while.

Extra advice: Don't let kissing in public get too raunchy and always be the one who breaks the kiss. You don't want to get them to horny on a barstool, is a bad idea and super adolescent. And being the one who breaks is a little tease. This is what "leave them wanting more is all about". And it preserves both her and your dignity, which she will give you extra points for subconsciously.


Peace,

kowalski