On reflecting here's where I fucked up:

I kept saying "Come to my crib" she was like I got to go to a dinner with my friends. I asked twice and the first time she said "what about if I wanted to play hard to get"

I should have said:
Life and uni is way too short for that and then gone in for a kiss.

I SHOULD HAVE LEAD HARDER

I kept asking her "Come to my crib", I should have said "We're going to play cards, we're going to my crib"
OR
"I don't like the toilets here, I am going to go pee at my crib, let's go"

My crib is like 2 mins from the bar.

and then I should have started walking because honestly while we were making out she was grabbing the top of my leg like near my crotch. I should have led harder obviously not forcing her physically just leading myself and she can follow or not. That's way better than asking her and waiting for her to lead.

Because looking at it now it was all token resistance, she never checked the time of her supposed dinner, she was so compliant, making out, holding hands and all that stuff.

Man I kept asking her to come rather than leading her. Oh my days wow. I was just trying to be polite and non needy.

Wow ok, I know what I did wrong now.