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Originally Posted by Bruce22
Name: Bruce 22
Age: 40
Location: Sheffield
Occupation: Hospital Therapy
PUA Experience: 0
I can count the women I've slept with on one hand. About 20 years ago i got into PUA and did a lot of theory and very little practice. My main skill was get drunk and then I can talk to people. I met a girl got married had a kid and now we're separated. I picked up one of my old books How to play the game by Neil Strauss and am unable to do the challenges. I watched some motivational videos and went in to Sheff city centre for 1hr30mins and couldn't get myself to talk to anyone..
So the new idea is find some people in the area who are already out there chatting to new people and see I can get out with them and get pushed in to talking to random people until i can do it myself, or find a coach and pay for some help. Not that I can afford it, but I'll have to find away because I feel this is an aspect of my life that needs addressing.
So any newbie or skilled Sheffielders or Nottingham/Derby/Leeds people want to go out some point hit me up Or if you know any Coaches in the area that would be appreciated too.
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Hey man, welcome to the forums!
Don't worry about not being able to talk to people when you first went out the first time. I remember spending a whole day just walking around and being frustrated with myself for not talking to anyone. It gets better, don't worry just stick in there
Everyone starts from somewhere, the main thing is just keep going out and set small goals. Just say hi to one person or ask for directions, once you build momentum you'll see it gets easier
I'm looking forward to your reports and I will be watching eagerly!