What I mean is you'd get more appropriate responses given the nature of your request for advice. There would be HR types on such a forum who would rip you a new arsehole.

It would be irresponsible for anyone here to encourage you further, or at least that's my opinion currently. Do what you like, but with the state of the world right now, particularly in the UK, of women "fighting back" against harassment and all that jazz, you should tread very carefully.