Oooh Big Boy! Now you are really showing your insecurity and stupidity.

Text conversation, or not, one still needs to have a positive mental attitude in order to write an attractive text that will get a good response. In fact, I believe it goes even deeper than this; I believe that people are subtly creating their reality with their mind, and so the girl in question is aware of the attractive vibe (or otherwise) that this guy is broadcasting - whether he sends a text or not. If the guy is broadcasting an overall positive vibe, he is likely to eventually bring about a reality where he gets with this girl...

On a different note... Why the aggression big boy? Obviously you are threatened - wait till you see me in person (if you ever do) - You will probably want to kill me! I'm just too dangerous!!