Sleeping with her in a first date is a mistake in my eyes , it causes buyer’s remorse which leads to her losing interest not because she wants to but because she felt a like a slut having sex with you on a first date (especially when she doesn’t know you that well ) , before having sex with a woman you want to keep and make her a GF,wife or lover ask yourself do i want one night of petting or countless nights of good sex. One way to prevent buyer’s remorse is to be a man and refuse to have sex with her on a first date , a man who can control his sexual feelings is a powerful man.
Back to texting make sure your texting is to minimum you cant game over the phone , you can only game infield , a small tip from a homie , in this rough time we all facing , make sure you work on yourself , read books about dating, being your best self etc.
Don’t focus on texting.

Peace