No this isn't some mystic thing or nlp stuff, I haven't been on in a while and I thought i'd waffle abit about projecting thoughts into peoples heads. ie thinking you know what someone is thinking.

This is a pretty dangerous thing to do and sometimes it may actually seem like you are right. However because you are thinking a certain thing like "she finds me boring" then you will start to look for more reasons and clam up and act upon those thoughts. Then when she loses interest you say to yourself that she did find you boring.

Up to that point she could have been really into you but because you got in your head and started looking and acting on thoughts that have no real basis just hunches.

This also aplies to presuming thoughts before you've even approached them, like "i'm not her type" or "she'll think i'm weird". If you go up thinking these thoughts you're going to act on them in a negative way.

Any thoughts/comments welcome! I'm not a fucking mind reader!