Thanks again to everyone for the warm welcome and cheers Shark, really appreciated your comments there. I'm actually really optimistic about the future now and really do think the best times of my life are to come, not something I would have thought 5 months ago. I didn't realise just how much being in an unhealthy relationship was taking out of me and I already feel like a completely different person. Having allowed this marriage to isolate me from other people is very sad for someone like me especially now it is over, I just want to put myself out there as much as possible and make some new friends. And well, having a little success with the ladies would be a nice bonus too