I have never ever had much luck at all with online dating websites etc. I think the main reason is that men tend to outnumber women on such sites by around four to one. So the numbers are heavily stacked against you. I did manage to get a few dates. But these were mostly with low value women like single unemployed mothers. I started using those sites way back in early 2001. And wondered why despite sending out hundreds of messages I got very few replies. Then I looked at the number of male members and the number of female members and found that there were around four times as many men on the site as women.