Nice one on the second date

Had a tinder date last night, was talking for two hours about various things she was laughing we were drinking all seemingly went well sat progressively next to her, at the end of the date she doesn't want to arrange another date and I ask for a kiss and the end and was denied. I have other successful closes but they are always with foreign girls.

Do you reckon I'm not reading the nuances and should simply ask back for wine?