Thanks for getting back to me Kowalski! Really struggling with this - it's a big issue in my life right now So any info is very welcome.

I did pickup a lot for a couple of years, slept with a lot of women, it was great fun, if a little frustrating at times. Met this girl, got in a relationship, great girl, definitely a potential keeper, tho not exactly my physical type, but we are well matched personality/values wise, and she's totally crazy about me.

She made it clear she wants further commitment... marriage, children, etc. So in this case I disagree with your statement "odds are your relationship will end..." - I think the only reason it might end is due to my current issues...

You hit the nail on the head about my commitment issue... I see hot girls and I want to put my nail in their head At the moment, it's stopping me from committing further... a part of me can't leave pickup behind, leaving me stuck in this indecision.

Not sure if it's just a natural feeling that all guys have (Coolidge effect) / or if I got in a relationship too soon / or if I'm with the wrong girl sex-wise even if she's amazing in every other way...

Thanks Jaz - good to hear your viewpoint - I definitely wasn't getting bored of it, and not quite at middle age yet Was just getting good at pickup and enjoying it a lot.

Do most guys find it gets boring eventually? Is that the sign that you're ready for a relationship?