The Blueprint is not about instructing you to DO something, it is about making you realise you don't need instructions at all in this world. Finding yourself and trusting your own way of doing things are all the tools you need. Like Tyler says it's painfully simple when you realise.

The fact that you cringe at his laughter is an interesting one. This is a good example of Tyler's realisation that being himself is more important than trying to please others, and this includes the way he laughs. It's about forgetting the playboy image and embracing the playboy lifestyle. BEING and not doing is the most important message he gives. Once you realise this for real you will see another side to what he is trying to say.