Update on Sainsbury's incident.

Sat down with store manager, was told that I had made several other colleagues uncomfortable by commenting on their looks.

I was advised by the store manager to "keep those thoughts in my head" and not always say what I think of a woman's looks.

This goes counter to what going direct is all about.

At some point during an interaction, you have to express interest, or they have no idea why you are talking to them and you're never going to get laid.

Needless to say, that store is not longer a viable warm up ground, as I can't use the staff there was warming up on anymore.

So if you can't even express interest in the most benign and polite way, how the HELL are you supposed to?