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Originally Posted by curadh
If she does call again, that probably means she feels remorse for acting that way, and might actually allow me to have a chance - should I just be trying to banter or should I act mad as if I'm annoyed for her conduct when I called.
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For fucks sake man, let it go and let her go.
You hadn't talked to her for a year before you phoned her. Do you know how many girls you could have went out and kissed or got intimate with in that time? Loads. Absolutely loads.
So stop moping around and do something else. This is a harsh response, but I feel I'm entitled to give this harsh response because I've not only been though a somewhat similar situation, but an overall more serious and complex experience than you, and I got through it.
I did get through it though, by being a strong motherfucker and taking responsibility for my future. Something along the lines of what Kowalski has said to you.
So it's time to man up.