Well it's ended ina big fuckng car crash. I worked up the balls to phone her and when I did she heard my voice and started saying get lost or she'll bring harassment charges. Feel like a total weirdo now and a loser. I don't think I desrved that. We hadn't talked for a year, I sent an email a few weeks ago but didn't hear anything so presumed it didn't get there (I wasn't sure of the address), but the animosity over the phone was terrible. I thought we had a bond and at least a friendship. In a bit of a state of shock now but I guess I have an answer.