You're correct Halcyon - to get a girl to return your call/text message she has to feel more than a brief attraction to you - a girl might give her number out 10times in a night and only the guy that really stands out is going to get her attention Monday morning when her mobile keeps going off. To do that you have to spend a bit of time with her and make a real emotional connection. I find the best results is the mini-date when you meet a girl and ake her on to a different bar or club...because you ahve moved locations with her it tricks the brain into thinking she has known you longer than she has/better than she does and if you get a few good emotional connection in too she is much more likely to want to meet you again. Try spending a little more time with teh girl before getting her number until you feel a real connection....yes you won't get to as many girls in that club/that night but you'll have more chance of seeing those ones you do spend time with again.

Keep us posted Brother.