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Originally Posted by acbdox
So after reflecting I've realised if I can become truly interested in her as a person I'll be way more present and be able to connect and progress.
So I'm looking for tips/advice on how to turn my focus solely on having a genuine interest in her? and in doing so everything else will come.
Thank you in advance for any help. Much respect
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Yeah the trouble is when guys just focus on a women's attractiveness it can cause a lot of problems for some, like anxiety and you can come across as creepy and awkward.
Focusing on her as a person defuses a lot of that anxiety, so you can use basic applied psychology for starting conversations. So basically ask questions about her, her ambitions in life, what she's studying what job she wants. Generally people love to talk about themselves. It also helps if you have your own ambitions and goals.
Then once you're comfortable having a conversation with her you can turn it to flirting.