Man, it's hard to remember what it's like to be 16.

I started seeing this one girl Rebecca Hill when I was maybe 15. She was real pretty, still is, and we'd had an eye on each other for a while. I was very proud to be with her. After a week or two I went on holiday and pulled another girl there. I told my friends and one of them used that to let me out and pop himself in my place. I was upset but then they were together for a long time and I thought it was good for them both.

That's the only story I can recall that even comes near to what you are talking about.

Where is this going... I dunno, just trying to relate a bit before telling you that none of this is gonna matter in a few days time.

The advice to go hit on another girl is a Trojan horse. When we say - go hit on another girl and the one you want will wake up to how awesome you are - what we don't normally add is - yeah, she probably will buy you won't care because you'll have moved on. There is no going back and even if there was a rational person wouldn't ever do it.

Also, go read Jaz's thread on getting over an ex.


Peace,

kowalski