A quick follow-up: I went to see their show tonight and spoke to the same girl. Only this time it was much different. She immediately excused herself and went back to her spins and what have ya. Sure, she had the show and was busy but I could tell even the 5 seconds she spent talking to me was a waste for her.
She came quickly when I waved to her. She wanted fun. I just didn't deliver.

This time I was shy. I overcame the anxiety (funny I wouldn't have thought I'd feel it but I did) but that was not enough. I was no fun for her. Bam! and she was gone.


No balls blows you out faster than you can say 'no balls'.
A valuable lesson.

peace out
7aco