Hi Folks,

I havent posted or been for the last few days. Been disillusioned by the whole PU thing. Really struggle "to leave her better than when you find her"..!!

Here's why:
I have been seeing three different girls regularly in the space of 3 months. I have been honest with them from the very beginning saying that Im not looking for a serious relationship. It was fun initially. Apart from sex, we go out out and do fun things. The first two girls, Ali & Bev, told me at different times they wanted more and wanted to take things seriously. I just told them I am really like being single and I like my freedom. The next thing I know I got nasty texts saying Im using them when I know with a clear conscience that I havent. And was told that I hurt their feelings. I got annoyed and just ignored both and never heard from them since.

The third girl, Shell. Now shes different. We kinda close and I love her company and we spent a lot of time together. She's everything I look for in a partner - long blonde hair, fab figure, nice boobs, good looking etc. Despite this attraction, I dont really want to settle for a relationship not with her, not with anyone else. Now on Saturday I got a long text message from her. Basically, she said that she is in love with me - what the fuck? And that she knows I dont want anything more. And she doesnt want to still be around when I do find the right woman. Now, that hurts big time. And she says shes hurting too. Now since Saturday I havent heard from her at all...!

I know this is long winded. But Im so disillusioned by the whole thing. You meet them, you have fun, you help them, and they want more and when you say you cant do that, they get HURT. So how am I supposed to leave them better than when I find them...! This is shit...! HELP!!