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Originally Posted by kowalski
Why is this guy even here!
You are scared and confused and telling a lot of lies to yourself. If you carry on like this you'll be a fully blown creepy loner by the time you're 30. The lies and confusion and fear will become you.
And this nonsense- "Maybe"... "Assuming I x" - pathetic. Answer the questions honestly and directly, ogtfo.
Authenticity is pretty much everything in this.
Peace,
kowalski
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I'm sorry if it's come cross in that way.
Ok, being authentic: I'm a nerdy virgin that's never had a girlfriend. I find it difficult to make emotional connections with people and have very few friends. I'm terrified of women and of being judged. Social anxiety prevents me from working also.
Being single does not bother me most of the time as I'm usually away in the clouds, but there are times when I desire someone to bounce off of. I certainly see myself as the 30 yo virgin if I do not grow a pair and cop on. That's why I'm here.
To put it short, I want a girlfriend but I don't know where to start. Can you help me?