You record yourself playing tennis?

Live feedback = the response you are getting from the other in the moment
Live feedback ≠ listening to an audio file some time later

I agree, something being weird isn't sufficient reason not to do it.

I'll try explain some of what I think about this without reference to ethics and will try not to be to esoteric about it...


If you are having a low success rate cold approaching in the street day, that's pretty much par for the course. Cold approaching is low yield. Street approaching is low yield. Cold approaching in the street... maybe if you are hitting on foreign girls they at least will talk to you and be friendly.

I think you are looking at this the wrong way around. The thoughts you are having are something like - oh, the reason that didn't go well is because I did x, if I'd done y it would have gone well - get over yourself.

Some girls straightaway fancy you and others don't. At whatever percentage that is for you given how you come across in general in this moment of your life. Mostly when things don't go well it's simply this - the girl didn't fancy you - there is nothing you can do about that. What people who get analytic about day game cold approach get good at is lengthening awkward conversations where there is no attraction.

Keeping a conversation going when neither participant is really invested nor interested is not the same thing as moving things forward when there is mutual attraction. More than that it seems to be counterproductive.

I think if it's cold approach in the street thoughts should mostly be - oh, there wasn't mutual attraction - and then forget about it.

There's way more value in improving your sensitivity to which girls are attracted to you and learning how to move those situations forwards. When you are with a girl and there's mutual attraction things like intonation, speed and topic choice don't matter hardly at all.

And all the important stuff to do with mutual attraction will not be evidenced on your audio file.


Peace,

kowalski