Kowalski

No; I kissed her on the cheek when she came in and placed my hand on her hip. Other than that, there wasn't really any time as she only stayed 30 minutes.

When people say 'be real / authentic', could you explain this for me?

My feelings were, we'd chat for a bit, and if I felt at any time she was attracted to me, I would have kissed her. But there really didn't seem an opportunity. I have made the mistake of being 'respectful' in a standoffish way in the past but I just got no feelings of attraction from her at all.