Oh and Ronan, you say you know guys who have got their shit together, hard working and still struggle with girls. Uhhh yeah? Being a hard working guy with his shit together isn't particularly related to attraction. A lot of guys who are good with girls DO NOT have their shit together, they are just confident with girls essentially.

Also your wording was 'they struggle to meet a decent bird' yeah welcome to life mate. That's nothing to do with pick-up. That's everyone's life. If finding a good partner was so easy then it'd sorta defeat the whole point of it. Just because you can pull girls every night, doesn't mean you are immune from the struggle of finding a good girl.

Even DeCaprio and George Clooney have that problem.