Originally Posted by kowalski

It sounds like it is you not them.

I used to be uncomfy around oriental girls. They often have all those delicate and shy mannerisms and I would become totally inauthentic around them, being very respectful and polite (like a waiter or some shit) and it´d just be awfully stiff and businesslike and I´d take her home then go back out to hit on soemone else.

Then I met an oriental girl where I knew she liked me before we met. I was relaxed and let myself be myself, being dominant, physical and crude and she responded just like any other girl would... more or less... responsive to my touch, amused and excited by my crude language, fucking a few hours after we meet etc.

Now, I´m generally authentic with oriental girls too and all goes as normal.

I share Jaz´s view on black girls. I´ve never been with one and find them to be intimidating. But know that´s mostly a thing in me stopping it from going well. Although that probably won´t change while I live here, there are nearly no blacks live here and not that many holidaying here. Nearly everyone living here is white or latino. Travellers are the same, plus lots of orientals and a few asians but generally very religious ones.


What about white girls stops you being authentic around them?


Peace,

kowalski